The right fit is the key to feeling comfortable and confident in sexy lingerie. Whether you're shopping for yourself or as a gift, a few simple steps can help you always choose the right size – and avoid unnecessary returns.
Take your measurements before you shop
The most important step is to measure your body properly before selecting a size. Use a soft measuring tape and note the following:
- Bust/chest: Measure around the fullest part of your chest, straight across the nipples.
- Waist: Measure around the narrowest part of your waist, usually a couple of centimetres above the navel.
- Hips: Measure around the widest part of your hips and buttocks.
Write down your measurements in centimetres and compare them to the size guide for each garment. Sizes can vary between brands, so never skip this step.
Understand the difference between garment types
Different types of lingerie fit differently and require slightly different thinking when it comes to sizing. A babydoll is often loosely cut and more forgiving in size, while a bodysuit or corset-inspired piece fits closer to the body and requires more precise measurements. If you're choosing a lingerie set, it's wise to check the sizing for the top and bottom separately, as they are sometimes sized individually.
Stretch and material matter
Many lingerie pieces are made from highly stretchy materials such as spandex or elastane. This means you can often choose your usual size or even a size down if you prefer a snug fit. Lace, on the other hand, has limited stretch and should match your measurements more precisely.
- High stretch (spandex/elastane): choose your regular size or one size down.
- Low stretch (lace, satin): stick closely to your exact measurements.
- Bodystockings: always check the height/length guide, not just the circumference.
Tips for shopping online
Shopping for lingerie online can feel uncertain, but with the right preparation it's straightforward. Always read the product description carefully – many garments include a size guide directly on the product page. Also make a habit of reading customer reviews, as they often provide valuable insight into whether a piece runs true to size, small, or large.
- Always measure yourself first – don't rely on your clothing size alone.
- Check the store's return policy before purchasing.
- Don't hesitate to contact customer service if you're unsure.
Inclusivity and body positivity
Sexy lingerie today comes in a wide range of sizes, from XS to generous plus sizes. All bodies are different and deserve to have fun with fashion. Focus on how the garment feels and whether it gives you the sensation you're after – not on fitting into a normative size category.
Frequently asked questions
How do I measure myself correctly for lingerie?
Use a soft measuring tape to measure your bust, waist, and hips in centimetres. Then compare your measurements to the size guide for the specific garment, as sizing can vary between brands.
What should I do if I'm between two sizes?
Choose the larger size if the garment has low stretch, and the smaller size if the material is very stretchy. When in doubt, the store's customer service team can help you decide.
Does my regular clothing size apply to sexy lingerie?
Not always. Lingerie is often sized using its own scale (XS–3XL or numerical sizes) that may differ from your regular clothing size. Taking your measurements is always the safest approach.
Can I return lingerie if it doesn't fit?
This depends on the store's return policy. Always check the terms before purchasing, and make sure the garment is unworn and still in its original packaging if you need to return it.
